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March 21, 2010
Scare Averted (for now)
So back in January, I allowed myself to be put in a vulnerable situation. I allowed someone to bare back me, without discussing HIV status before hand. I know, I should have, and what was going through my head was "this is a guy EVERYONE wishes they could get fucked by, and they chose me". I allowed it to happen because a) I came off a 2 1/2 year relationship and was going through a slut phase (again) and b) the person was well known.
After the fact, I we had the discussion and found out he was positive. Yes, I let him cum inside me (among other things).
The scare changed my attitude quickly and I started longing to settle down again, wanting the intimacy, and safe space to be. After a month and a half, I finally got tested yesterday. To my excitement, the results came back negative. Since conversion can happen up to 6 months, but generally know for certain after 3, I will get tested again in July to make sure.
On another note, Vacation plans are coming in nicely. I finished sending Richard the money for the house in Orlando for gay days, so thats paid. Booked my hotel room in Chicago for IML, and bought a multi city plane ticket for about $380. For those who may not know, I am heading to IML (International Mr Leather) in Chicago for 5 days, then heading for a week to Orlando for Gay Days, Disney World, and the opening of The Wizarding World of Harry Potter at Universal Studios. Im now getting excited.
The house we are renting is a 6 bedroom, 5 bathroom private house, with a private pool. We will be there for a week.
Posted by Des at March 21, 2010 07:19 AM