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December 20, 2006
Who's In Charge?
So Im walking up 18th with Rick and we are talking as this guy stops in the middle of the two of us. I of course walk around because I dont pay attention to strangers who want my attention unless they are cute (who doesnt). As he stops in front of us, he yells out "Whos in charge?". I walk around but Ricks curiousity gets the best of him and he replies "Whos in charge of what?". The old man comes back and with a jazzy/vaudville tone replies "Whos in charge of Sex".
It didnt stop there. Rick and I go to Daddys for a drink. A guy walks in and looks directly at Rick and says "Tonights the night". I just looked at Rick and said "Dont do it!". He fought the urge and didnt ask.
To take things one step further, we are standing outside Cliffs. A guy walks past Rick, and pretty much looked so close at him that you would think he was checking out his nose hair. The guy said nothing and just kept walking.
Man Rick! Some days you have all the fun lol....
On another note, I went to dinner with Josh & Randy. It went well. Its funny but my horoscope said "dont look back, be sad, or have regrets" and I dont. It was a bit tough though hearing about how Josh has become the person I wanted him to be in our relationship. Things I said back then that I wanted, seemed to be things he was now realizing with Randy. Im not sure if I failed at communication or if it was all just a part of growing (although Id like to think I helped in the process of his growth), but all in all Im really happy that if he couldnt be *that* person with me, he can be *that* person with someone else.
I on the other hand am becoming more poly and taking on the role of the things he wanted me to be. Its funny how we shifted gears. I understand a lot of the things he wanted which I couldnt give at that time. Its funny how life works but he is happy, I am happy, and we are still very much friends. We always said we wanted each other to be happy and I really think we are both happy for each others happiness. *sigh*, its a comforting feeling knowing you can be with someone for 3 1/2 years, love them, let them go, and still be happy in your own life and for theres.
Finally I received a "elf yourself" from a friend and decided to do my own.
Enjoy
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Posted by Des at December 20, 2006 07:27 AM
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