About Me

I could go into the long history but you probably want to know more about who I am today.  The story seems to change on a day to day basis, so keeping it up to date can sometimes be impossible.

Im a gay man, out, involved, and enjoying both the LGBTQ lifestyle, as well as the bdsm, fetish, kink, leather, rubber, gear, and "you name it" communities.

Im currently single, and finally getting back to enjoying single life.  Life by myself, as well as the company of new men, old friends, and family.  Not saying I couldnt settle down but the list of what I want is pretty extensive.

Im polyamorous which basically means a lot of work ahead.  It seems tough to find one substantial relationship that works, let alone 2 or 3 with people who actually "get" what a poly family is.

On a traditional side, I tend to be more down to earth, approachabe, and visible.  I enjoy helping new people come into the community, removing the fears that they are alone in their kink, and helping them to understand they are just as normal as anyone else.  

I hold a leather title (Hayes Valley Leather 2008), and have competed at IML (International Mr Leather).  Im generally the type who doesnt hold on to the title as a crutch to the past, or use it to put myself above anyone.  I have a title, but am not entitled more than anyone else in the human race.

On a personal level, I enjoy connecting with different types of people, but can also smell bullshit a mile away.  I enjoy people who are sincere, real, and honest which can come in all shapes, sizes, and colors.  It is a rainbow after all.

Some of my interests include cruising, exploring new places, taking pictures, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, games, karaoke, fund raising, bar hopping, entertaining, and being social with friends.  I enjoy staying home on occasion with the tv, a movie, netflix, and TiVo.

If you have questions, are exploring, looking for like minded people, or even just to say hi, You can chat with me on my contact page.

Thanks for reading!